What to do when your kids cry? Know how to calm them
Children cry for a variety of reasons which includes hunger, anger, fear of being left alone, childhood anxiety, teething problems besides fever, headache and sickness, as well.
We as adults can do something about these issues and maybe tell our near and dear ones, who in turn will arrange medical help, but very frequently, the baby can be given a solution that may be useful to quickly calm the child’s discomfort downwards, in order to stop it from crying.
However, there are parents having one or more children where the babies keep crying at anything and then will not stop unless given a chocolate or adequate attention by the parents, who otherwise might be too sexually active and aroused so as to not try and hear the small baby crying for attention, it is possible that they may have a feeling of frustration, guilt, hopelessness, besides being angry on the innocent baby, who they seem to feel that is the main cause of their mental peace and tranquillity at night.
These parents do not have any awareness, education and feelings that because of their own physical pleasure needs, the small infant who will grow up as an adult in the future, will despise them and may become rebellious because of parental negligence.
Here are five basic steps as to how you can stop your child from crying, in a fast and a quick way very effectively.
Rocking – A majority of the crying children love to be cared for held physically, also known as Stroking by the world famous child psychiatrist Dr. Thomas Harris, who says in his book “I am OK You are OK” that all babies who are born in human or animal families need to be stroked regularly and pampered, so that the baby develops a feeling of security and safety when its most vulnerable.
There is something that magically may seem to happen when the parents of the baby sits in a rocking chair with the kid on his or her lap, holding the child and then continue to rock when there is a smile in the baby’s face seen in a majority of cases..
The forward and the backward motion of the rocking chair syndrome that is coupled with the comfort and security of the parent’s lap is a great natural soothing tool for the baby. If you sing or hum a song into the baby’s ears while rocking back and forth softly into your child’s ears, it creates a sense of comfort and security to the small baby as well.
